I have recently had a intended shared dream while lucid and i feel that it is my duty to explain how i did it and how it happened...
here is the only way that i know of to have a successful shared dream....
1.become lucid through Wilding, it is nessecary to successfully WILD to have a shared dream, this is a shared dreaming tutorial not a WILDing tutorial so achieveing lucidity is up to you.. and then focus on the task of shared dreaming, you have to be in a deep form of sleep or lucidity to work, meaning that there is little or no chance of you waking up soon...
2.Now in a deep state of lucidity you must find someone to contact to this is how you do it..
With me i just focussed on the task of shared dreaming and then i found myself scrolling through a list of nearly everyone i have ever known...this probabaly can be done manually but with me it happened automatically. The list can be in whatever form you want, it can be on paper or even by viewing a holographic id card of the person who you are looking at... This list will be ordered from your subconscious or something else, unless you have a ridiculously strong connection to the dream world odds are if you attempt to create this list then it will only be a list of dream characters, so it should be ordered from you to your subconscious....it is recommended that only advanced lucid dreamer try this....
3. Next let your senses guide you to the person who has the strongest connection to the "dream world", with me i scrolled through it by seeing a hologram of the person in a form of an identity card, and the cards stopped on some random person... this person has the strongest connection... you can either choose to choose this person, but if it someone you no longer have contact with or cannot contact to prove if it works then choose someone else...if it is someone who you do not recognise do NOT choose them it could cause complications...
Here you have a choice to do many different things, such as enter their dream or pull them into yours or even pull them into another dreamscape which is some sort of combination of both of your dreams...
the problem with pulling people out of dreams is that it can lead to a confusing and disorientating experience... the person who i dragged into my dream had his dream of driving a red Ferrari on a race track abruptly ended by being thrown into my dream...
4. Now i will tell you how to drag them into your dream....
first you get a "lock" (strong sense) on them and you imagine them being near you, if you are strong enough to pull them out of their dream and into yours then that connection will happen now...this will not work if the other person is already lucid and unwilling for it to work, and in that case the dream should be instantly aborted. For me i saw him in the distance and i also felt his presense, he also remembers seeing me, but not clearly or upclose, unfortunately the dream quickly ended so we were not able to properly communicate...
If you can see them but not "feel" them (you will know what i mean when the time comes) then odds are you just summoned up a dream character instead. You have to start feeling them before they appear in your dream, its that sense which sparks the idea of connecting the two dreams... This sense is a sense that you should have never felt before, you will know what the sense is when the time comes..
OTHER NOTES (DO NOT SKIP THEY ARE IMPORTANT)
1.Now for the dreamscape which you should attempt to shared dream in, i recommend a white room which is white for as ar as the eye can see... this is not difficult for your mind to create and changes can easily be made by you or the other lucid dreamer...
2.If the other dreamer is not lucid then you should turn him lucid in the calmest way possible, first explain it to them, if that doesnt work then simply show them that it is a dream via levitation or something.... if that still doesnt work and you are certain that they are not a dream character then do any other SAFE method possible to turn them lucid, but DO NOT under any circumstance attempt to cause them harm, there is no telling what this harm could lead to, it could cause them to wake up feeling pain (it does happen) or believeing that they had a nightmare, also if they feel that you are threatening them then they may attack you instead which, even though you are more experienced than they are, could affect you.... So my message here is basically DONT ATTACK OTHER PEOPLES DREAM BODIES...
i feel that it is my duty to write a safety warning in this post, so here it is...
WARNING: SHARED DREAMING HAS NOT BEEN TESTED UP TO A LARGE EXTENT AND THERE ARE MANY RISKS INVOVLED WITH IT, SO BY READING THIS POST YOU CONFIRM THAT I AM NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR ANY DANGERS THAT MAY OCCUR WHILE ATTEMPTING/SUCCEEDING TO SHARED DREAM...
odds are nothing will go wrong but attempt it at your own risk, their is still no proof that it is entirely safe... that it why you should only attempt it if you are an experienced lucid dreamer with powerful, boardering on God-like dream abilities...or simply strong to very strong abilities will do....
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Please sent back your results, this is needed to discover whether this technique actually works, if it does then it could be a scientific breakthrough...it worked for me i hope it will work for you....