Ive searched some of the forum before posting, but didnt find much on OBE or shared experiences? I know that there's not definite answers to my questions but im curious if anyone has had similiar experiences or maybe give some advice.---Please feel free to read about this dream in detail in my dream journal- its the last entry(posted Dec. 20) and its long---

It could quite possibly shared. Reasons: The DC(who was my best friend in high school) maintained most control, but it was more like he was teaching me how to control my future dreams. Also, i asked him if he knew he was dreaming and he said yes( too chicken to call him and ask. i havent spoken to him in 2 yrs.)
I actually took comfort in someone else being in control in my lucid dream?-what thats about? Is it bad to give control to a trusted DC

While lucid dreaming is it considered an OBE if your standing behind yourself watching whats occuring, but still feeling everything thats happening? Im not even quite sure why i wouldve placed "myself" outside of myself, (like that even makes sense)
but i did enjoy just watching what was taking place....im such a freak