 Originally Posted by TranquilityTrip
I do not mean to offend anyone, but why can't coincidences simply be coincedences?
If it happens once, in some minor way, then you can blow it off as a coincidence. If it happens to you a lot, in a major, often objectively verifiable way, then it becomes ridiculous to pretend its a coincidence. And suppose it does still seem absurd to you. If its a part of your life, its still a part of your life, even if you don't have a model that explains how it works.
And not believing it because a scientist hasn't found a way to fund a study and publish convincing results is not very reasonable either. Lots of things aren't easy to control in a lab setting. If you had been a lucid dreamer before it was accepted scientifically, would you have dismissed your own experiences as unreal? When I was a kid I learned from ostensibly 'scientific' sources that people dreamed in black and white. It didn't make me doubt that my dreams were in color.
I agree its reasonable for you to decline to believe in shared dreaming if the people who claim to experience it seem to you to be generally neurotic and generally untrustworthy. And its reasonable to guess that its probably unreal on that basis. I think it would be arrogant and ignorant to actively disbelieve in it though, when you don't really know very much about it.
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