LOL, although this isn't like the other threads, I promise. :3

So lately my dream recall has just been nonexistent, and lucids come and go as they damn well please. I've been working on this, although I haven't been getting very far.

But the real shock came to me when I actually did have my first shared dream with Aquanina. Details are in my dream journal for those who are curious enough to look.

Anyway, long story short, I was playing around, lucid for the first time in a long while, and Aquanina just happened to drop in. It startled me so much, I reacted in the stereotypical, "Get the hell out of my head!" fearful way.

How does one readily combat this? I mean, I know it was kind of a shock, but eventually I got over it. In case it happens again, I don't want the person having to try and deal with me hysterically flapping my arms about going, "my head! My head! get outoutoutoutouttttttt!"

Would the best course of action just keep trying to share dreams to ease myself into it? Or realize that yeah, when you sleep, people will drop in unannounced. It'll just happen. xD

Any tips?