 Originally Posted by GMoney
I've read through this thread and find the discussion very interesting. But why don't we just stop arguing and do something about it? Let's get testing.
It seems as if it's difficult to prove objectively, but it can be very easily proven to an individual subjectively. The skeptic doesn't post his/her DJ and the shared dreamer explains the dream - high similarity rates would prove shared dreaming to the skeptic, as no one else should know that information. I would be happy to participate in a test like this, but my inability to become lucid means that it would take months for me to prove this to anyone.
Based on the evidence for each case, though, I have to say that I believe in shared dreaming. I haven't experienced it yet (but hope to soon), but judging from the data it seems as if SDing is a real possibility. The study Mzzkc posted coupled with the enormous sea of anecdotal evidence indicate that shared dreaming is real.
I used to be a skeptic, but the vast array of evidence is just too massive. At first I thought WakingNomad and Raven Knight were the same person, but as I saw more and more shared dreamers I eventually came to realize that no one would have time to make that many accounts and repost different versions of the same story. Would anyone spend hours and hours every single day for over two years just to improve his Internet reputation? I don't think so.
If there were two or three people claiming to share dreams on the site, I would agree that they're probably lying/colluding to deceive the site. But do you really think that WakingNomad, Raven Knight, Man of Shred, Walms, TheCusp, Loaf, Kaomea, saltyseedog, Aquanina, and Cacophony are all lying, not to mention the hordes of posters who casually say, "I told my brother about my dream and he filled in the rest and it was the exact same thing as mine"? Granted, they all have anecdotal evidence, but there's just way too much to brush it aside entirely. That many people certainly hold an air of credibilty, and I would think that it's more likely than not that they're experiencing something that's real.
I don't know how credible Mzzkc's study was, but a 30%+ overlap when the odds are 1 in 5 billion? That seems like evidence to me.
Now, I'm a rational person and believe in scientific testing. It should be provable, so why don't we stop babbling about it and get this experiment done? As I said, I wish I could participate but we need experienced lucid dreamers that could dream on command. Might I suggest having someone like Raven Knight go into Ghost94's dreams and report what she saw in her dream journal before he posts his? That should work, and would be a way of convincing the skeptic. It wouldn't prove SDing to the world, but if we could do it with enough people in a large enough sample size we could create a credible and replicable test.
Personally, I believe in shared dreaming and am looking forward to the fun that could come with it. It sounds awesome and I don't know who wouldn't want to at least give it a try!
You're a skeptic. I'm a skeptic.
skep·tic also scep·tic (skptk)
n.
1. One who instinctively or habitually doubts, questions, or disagrees with assertions or generally accepted conclusions.
2. One inclined to skepticism in religious matters.
Generally accepted conclusion:
"Shared dreaming is not real."
I DOUBT THAT.
I am the skeptic.
So, what is the purpose of convincing "skeptics"?
My personal definition of a skeptic is one who doubts until they experience for themselves.
People that claim to be skeptics of shared dreaming are often energy vampires.
They follow a very predictable pattern of behavior which is easily understood once you realize that attention = energy. When you give something or someone your attention, you are giving them your energy.
Inciting others to anger and arguing is energy vampire behavior.
Once you begin arguing with someone, you are giving them your energy.
Think of a two-year-old child that wants attention. First, they may run over to daddy or mommy and give them a hug, but if ignored will begin crying or screaming. If the child gets more attention from screaming than they do from trying to hug their parents, they will form a habit of screaming to get attention. This is how energy behavior is taught to children.
If you feel you must give attention to someone that is inciting you to argue, the best thing to do is try to return positive energy for the negative so you won't get sucked into their game. If you do, the other will steal your energy, and you will feel depleted and angry without even knowing why.
Think about this energetically:
Person A posts.
Person B replies.
Person A replies.
Person B, C, D, E, F, and X all reply to person A.
Who is receiving the most energy?
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