yeah I think I know what you mean. Sometimes when I'm dreaming I have this feeling that what I'm doing is more important then what I want to do. In my most recent lucid dream I spent a long time watching my DCs playing this odd game before realizing that I should do seomething fun. It's like I feel drawn to staying with the story. Usually I can break away because I'm so focused on my goal. I make sure to think about what I want to dream about next all the time so it's drilled into my head. I always plan things out ahead. Example: When I realize I'm dreaming I will find my dream guide and I will ask him these questions... Then I memorize the questions, knowing I'll probably forget it otherwise. It also prevents me from feeling the wild freedom of doing whatever I want and getting too excited when I plan out my dream in my dream which wakes me up, plus it saves time. I hope this helps.