 Originally Posted by DreamChaser
Well my wife has Lds, but never learnt like us.
She doesn't try to LD but has had several LDs and has had them since childhood.
I think its personal, and if the person is focussed at a young age.
And as nevie said many develop it out of necessity when young to overcome nightmares.
My wife thinks this is how it happened to her. Its about control.
Some think they are a natural, but just don't remember how it started as they developed it at such a young age.
Yes, I agree with this. However at some point, that person put forth the effort to learn to know when dreams occur. Once someone learns to LD, they usually don't 'unlearn' it very easily, unless they have no use for it anymore.
Example... A kid age 14 learns to LD because of nightmares, right? Now this can go 2 ways...
a: His nightmares go away, and he/she no longer has a need for LD'ing anymore. So he/she pays no further attention to it.
b. His nightmares fade away, but he/she likes lucid dreaming. So continues it, as a normal everynight thing, and they never lose the ability to LD. Through many years of practicing this, it becomes almost impossible to not get an LD.
Of course, there is always an exception to the rule.
So my conclusion is that the OP may have known once how to LD, but had no need for it and the ability faded away.
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