I realized how often I became lucid but, didn't remember because of recall power. Try the wbtb technique it seems to work for everyone I've talked to.
if you REALLY wanna become lucid

every 90 mins have an alarm set.
wake up and recall your dreams on paper.
after a week of that if you make no progress I dunno what to say.
BUT, if you do make progress then start your RCing daily 10-15x a day.
After 2 weeks of these combined then start with the wbtb technique. You can start it earlier I just am trying to give you a good time frame to start. I have used a few friends on figuring these out.
I still am no pro. Altho I'm a very strong lucid dreamer and can do many things once I catch myself. Via dilds. I don't seem to have the ability to Wild.. :-(