hey, umm i preform reality checks and so on and never have lucid dreams. never. ever. and i've talked to my friends about this and i think i dont lucid dream because i think i "never have them" and "i have to have lucid dreams". i think this might tell my mind that i cant have lucid dreams.

so what should i do? should i keep telling myself "i will have lucid dreams" or something like that? i know i must have developed a mental block against having them. anyway any advice would be nice...