It took me 18 months to have my first proper lucid dream. Trust me, I'd have welcomed 7 lucids in 3 months; I'd have been the happiest guy in the world. You're doing really really well. Don't stress

Now, that's the 'inspirational' bit over, here's some pragmatism. I would recommend giving WILDing a rest for a couple of weeks, like someone recommended above. Just keep journalling. As for your problem of striking a balance with wilding... that's pretty much everyone's problem with it, I believe. It's why it's seen as such a hard method. Someone might correct me here, but from what I've seen, that's accurate.