i want to know what people think of it.
Not to go all gooey lovemush, but true love (for me, anyway) is finding the one person you genuinely want to spend the rest of your life with, no matter what (given a set of PLAUSIBLE conditions and trials). The person that makes you simply happy to be around on a regular basis. True love is different from perfect love, in that it actually can exist. There will be fights and arguments, and much sleeping on the sofa, but if it is true love, both parties will stick it out and weather the storm. Finding a soulmate is unrealistic, and holding out for "the one," or whom you perceive to be the one, can lead you to pass up a lot of great people. Love is often found in unexpected places, and most people are perfectly capable of falling in love with more than one person.

Too often, people confuse "love" with "infatuation." Love is what's left after the infatuation dies. Shagging a person in your dreams is very different from waking up next to the same person after 27 years and being happy that you're still together.

how far would you go to find it?
Relationships need work from both parties to work out in the long run, no question about it. It will require effort to maintain a relationship. Similarly, finding somebody is going to take a bit of work. As I said, waiting for your Prince Charming or hoping to luck upon some dame snoozing in the forest isn't going to get you far at all. You have to take care of yourself, not be a total prick, and keep your eyes (and your mind) open to the possibilities. If you aren't attracted to someone, then you aren't very likely to go falling head-over-heels in love, but at the same time, you don't need to shoot only for the supermodels or the celebrities. Keeping your priorities in check is essential. And if you find someone you think you may like, go over and ask them out. What have you got to lose? That's what dating is designed for: to figure out if you might like to spend a good portion of your life with that person.

who do you think it would be?
Fucked if I know. I've seen some cuties I'd like to shag, I'll admit, but nobody that screams "soulmate," and I doubt I'll ever meet anyone who does. Honestly, you don't know if you love someone until you spend a significant amount of time in a relationship. "Love at first sight" is more like "infatuation at first sight." The first couple of years may be fun, sure, but when the thrill wears off, you'll know if you're in love or not. Keeping the relationship interesting should be a priority, but if it feels like a chore and you really aren't all that happy to see your significant other, you probably aren't in love.

Eh, just my two cents.