Thread: Tell Me About Dating and Relationships.

Originally Posted by Mes Tarrant

Be friends with the girl first - that way you'll find out everything you need to know, like whether or not she has a boyfriend, without it being all awkward. What I hate most is guys taking one look at me and assuming that I'm single. Single and looking. Really makes for some uncomfortable interactions, because at the moment I'm neither of those.

If you're new to dating, skip the typical "going to a dinner" or "seeing a movie," whatever. Find a girl who shares some of your interests and do those activities. Like video games? Have her come over to your house and play some games together. Like riding bikes? Go on a bike ride together.

It doesn't have to feel like a formal "date." Start by just... hanging out.

You do that, then you have a high chance of getting stuck in the friend zone. It is best you date people you don't know much about. The whole point of dating is getting to know them on a relationship level, not a friendship level. Innately, they will be your best friend if the relationship turns out long and prosperous.