Thread: Tell me would you date outside your race?

I don't feel that its racist if you're not attracted to say... A cherokee, but if your the guy who was in General Custard's last stand, and you don't even know any cherokees, and your trying to exterminate them well...things are just pointless. Why hate a Lakota if you're a Crow? You're both humans, and you're both Indians...!!! Damn... my logic confuses even me. Now my personal prefences are not ordained to strictly race, as long as he is cowboy who wears jeans, a hat, chaps, and boots... whether he's arab, black, white or even asian... cowboys'll turn my head. With some people it's not exactly their race but their culture, that turns them on or off.

i get that. but like color doesn't matter to me at all when it comes to flirting, friends and family and such, but marriage and realtionships, for some reasonthey do....

If there's no physical attraction, then you're not racist. That's just a superficial thing. Everyone has their own definition of what 'sexy' is.

Originally Posted by aorozco

am i rascist for not wanting to date, a hispanic or black or indian or asian person? lol. i dont think i am, i just dont feel as attracted to them.... is that bad?

No, that's not racist at all. I'm not attracted to Indian or Asian men either (not usually-- I've been attracted to just 2 Asian men in my entire life). I'm attracted to black guys seldom, too, but one black man who is really hot to me-- Taye Diggs, the musician/actor. He's SOOOO handsome.

I am mainly, 99.999% of the time, attracted to white/European men-- if European, especially Italian men and women. *DROOL*

Jeff777

But tell me...what about when dating/marrying someone...are you less likely to date outside your race?

Hell, I've dabbled beyond the human race on occasion...no prejudice here.

i would date/marry any race - i am white... although, i am generally not attracted to blacks; because i like petite women. my parents would be happy for me either way, i am not so sure about my grandparents or even some friends(!) but that would not bother me.

Originally Posted by InTheMoment

Jeff777

Hell, I've dabbled beyond the human race on occasion...no prejudice here.

Lol, I had no idea you were still around.

Originally Posted by Kushna Mufeed

If there's no physical attraction, then you're not racist. That's just a superficial thing. Everyone has their own definition of what 'sexy' is.

you're very right. It is all a personal prefrence to race and even gender that draws people's eyes. What I was stating is... if you aren't attracted that is one thing(that one is just fine), but if you have a dislike or I should say a hatred then we're getting a little racist Sorry if I wasn't very clear... I have a habit of doing that...lol got to work on it.

short answer to the thread, yes.

Well, it all depends on if I like the girl or not really...

But my grandma would KILL me if she found out I was dating a black girl...

As I said above, I've never fancied anyone of a different race, but if I did, then I would.
I really couldn't care less. You like who you like, everything else is irrelevant crap.

yes i would date outside my race, and my parents wouldn't have an issue with it. I'm actually very attracted to Indians...

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Originally Posted by InTheMoment

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I would, and have dated/married outside my race.

I'm Mexican, full-blooded. Mexicana de la raza. My Dad is so brown, if he stood next to a tree, he'd be camouflaged.

My first "love" was a black man. Damn him. He broke my heart, so I swore I would never date another black man. We would have made awesome looking babies.
I ended up marrying a white guy, and giving birth to half whities, half mexicanitos. They're awesome little kids, I love them. I divorced that white guy, married another white guy. Love the man to death. But yes, I would date or marry outside of my race.

I've never been attracted to anyone but whites and blacks, not even my own race. Weird. I either like 'em black or white, not in between.

By the way, O', your daughter is adorable! She reminds me so much of one of my nieces. She's half mexican, half black. I'm telling you, I would have had awesome looking babies if "J" and I would have stayed together. Maybe, in the next life, O', you'll come back as a Spanish man, and I will be a black woman, and we coincendentally find each other, and conceive, LOL. Okay, creepy. I need to lay off the juice. Good thing my kids are out of town.

My mom doesn't care if I go out with a man, woman, transsexual, hermaphrodite, black, white, asian.
My dad might be a little uncomfortable with transsexuals and those sorts of things, but he wouldn't show it. Other than that he's pretty much fine with everything too.

I tend to like white and black women the most. But I've found attractive asians too, among other things...
I guess I just don't care. xD

This question is strange to me, because I've never encountered any racial bigotry among any of my family members. My girlfriend is venezuelan and she's met most of my extended family. I don't think the issue of race even crossed anyone's mind.

Originally Posted by InTheMoment

Hell, I've dabbled beyond the human race on occasion...no prejudice here.

Whoa. I remember you. Where the hell have you been??

black or white, whatever, hot chicks are hot chicks

Originally Posted by no-name

black or white, whatever, hot chicks are hot chicks

Spoken like a true pimp.

wow, interesting how so many people's parents are sorta racist.

I'm white, and I tend to not really like white girls. I have a very little bit of native american heritage, and for some reason I would really like to meet a nice native american girl. they're so rare!

I've dated a Korean (i think my parents would like an asian girl for me haha), and a girl who is half white, half (east) indian and freaking gorgeous.

But I don't think it's racist to prefer certain characteristics over others, for example I could be best friends with a really dark-skinned black guy, but I would probably not be attracted to a really dark-skinned woman.

Originally Posted by Misbijoux

By the way, O', your daughter is adorable! She reminds me so much of one of my nieces. She's half mexican, half black. I'm telling you, I would have had awesome looking babies if "J" and I would have stayed together.

Haha. I can't believe I missed this reply.

Thanks, Misbijoux. She's just too cute for her own good. I don't even think I have to say how much I'm dreading her upcoming teenage years. Lol.

Originally Posted by Misbijoux

Maybe, in the next life, O', you'll come back as a Spanish man, and I will be a black woman, and we coincendentally find each other, and conceive, LOL. Okay, creepy. I need to lay off the juice. Good thing my kids are out of town.

It's a date!

Originally Posted by cygnus

wow, interesting how so many people's parents are sorta racist.

I'm white, and I tend to not really like white girls. I have a very little bit of native american heritage, and for some reason I would really like to meet a nice native american girl. they're so rare!

I've dated a Korean (i think my parents would like an asian girl for me haha), and a girl who is half white, half (east) indian and freaking gorgeous.

But I don't think it's racist to prefer certain characteristics over others, for example I could be best friends with a really dark-skinned black guy, but I would probably not be attracted to a really dark-skinned woman.

Yeah but at least this generation has changed quite a bit, I've also got some native American, a bit on both sides.

I don't know if I am as interested in black girls as my last post suggested (I was just going through a phase ) Although I am certainly very into non-white girls .

Also I've noticed I rarely fall for girls who don't have brown eyes, rather they be white or some other race.

All of that is usually just for romance though, I think girls besides race or eye color can be pretty equally sexy if they actually care about their looks.

I love my black boyfriend im white.
I really dont care what people look like i always go or personality. In time looks will fade but their spirit will always be the same.
I live in South Africa and our history has alot of Rasicm in it with the Apartheid and all that. So yeah we do get odd looks and hidious comments but we reall dont care. My parents love my boyfriend and I was kinda surprised because they are both scottish, and I mean my dad is a big scottish man you dont want to offend him.

So yeah my lil story