Thread: tell me about first kisses...good or bad

I actually technically have had a kiss, but it was when I was like 4. Oddly enough it was a straight-up kiss between me and this other young girl. I don't actually remember it at all, I only know about it from a picture my mom snatched.

I haven't had a single kiss since. I'm not really all that much of a shy guy as I was several years ago but for some reason, I still get that "Omg! It's her!" feeling whenever I'm around the girl I like. Not shy about anything else, just getting close to a girl who I'm interested in. What can I say? I'm a freak of nature.

Originally Posted by Black_Eagle

I still get that "Omg! It's her!" feeling whenever I'm around the girl I like. Not shy about anything else, just getting close to a girl who I'm interested in. What can I say? I'm a freak of nature.

My bet would be your not as much effected by it as me. I know the feeling though, when I want to go up to a girl I like, the girl I like now, it feels like the act that I would be about to commit is so alien in nature and my whole world will shake when I do it, and I just feel so threatened that I can never make the move, worst is that I really am so lazy,

All I can compare it to is Sleep Paralysis, you know where you feel you could at anytime take control of your body, but you cannot find your will to move the muscle to the slightest degree, this is what happens to my mind exactly.

Originally Posted by Black_Eagle

I still get that "Omg! It's her!" feeling whenever I'm around the girl I like.

I get that all the time. In fact, here's an extract from my journal on it. I replaced the names for privacy reasons.

Thursday 25th September, 2008

Anyway, the job induction began at 3:00. For the first two hours, we finished and gathered up paperwork, watched a few videos about the store, and answered a few questions. Then we were allowed to have a 15 minute break. During the break, me and my sister just took a walk around Elizabeth. Then, we spent another hour and a bit, watching more of the video and answering more questions. Then we were allowed to have a 45 minute break. There was nothing to do, so we just walked a couple of laps around the centre. At the same time, I thought, 'Wouldn't it be weird if I saw her here?' About a minute later, I walk around the corner, and guess who I see?

It was her! I nearly fainted when I saw her. As soon as I saw her face, I was struck with a huge feeling of happiness and surprise. It was so big that I was absolutely lost for words, and all I could give her was a nod of greeting. That same feeling struck me through the stomach, and I felt as if my heart had just skipped a beat. The feeling then passed to my legs and made them numb, and feel like jelly.
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Sure sucks...

I had my first kiss in 11th grade. She had already kissed one guy before me. It was good, but nothing like I had made it up be in my head. And don't get me wrong I really enjoy kissing, but my first one was nothing special. I'm inclined to believe it's because she wasn't much into kissing in general. It just wasn't her thing. I've kissed 3 other girls since then and they've all said I am a really good kisser.

Originally Posted by Everlong

I get that all the time. In fact, here's an extract from my journal on it. I replaced the names for privacy reasons.

Thursday 25th September, 2008

Anyway, the job induction began at 3:00. For the first two hours, we finished and gathered up paperwork, watched a few videos about the store, and answered a few questions. Then we were allowed to have a 15 minute break. During the break, me and my sister just took a walk around Elizabeth. Then, we spent another hour and a bit, watching more of the video and answering more questions. Then we were allowed to have a 45 minute break. There was nothing to do, so we just walked a couple of laps around the centre. At the same time, I thought, 'Wouldn't it be weird if I saw her here?' About a minute later, I walk around the corner, and guess who I see?

It was her! I nearly fainted when I saw her. As soon as I saw her face, I was struck with a huge feeling of happiness and surprise. It was so big that I was absolutely lost for words, and all I could give her was a nod of greeting. That same feeling struck me through the stomach, and I felt as if my heart had just skipped a beat. The feeling then passed to my legs and made them numb, and feel like jelly.
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Sure sucks...

Try talking to her.

Also cease writing a journal. You are not a female.

Originally Posted by Siиdяed

Also cease writing a journal. You are not a female.

Hey, males can have a journal as well, what's the problem with that? It could also be called, 'reflecting'. 'Reflecting' on my day helps me calm down after a rough one, and helps me solve my own problems. So I'm sure there is nothing wrong with that... You could even call it a daily documentation of my life, but that is just a blown up version of a journal.

Originally Posted by Everlong

Hey, males can have a journal as well, what's the problem with that? It could also be called, 'reflecting'. 'Reflecting' on my day helps me calm down after a rough one, and helps me solve my own problems. So I'm sure there is nothing wrong with that... You could even call it a daily documentation of my life, but that is just a blown up version of a journal.

You are writing a diary, in which your thoughts and emotions are being kept and treasured for posterity.

There may very well be a small, novelty padlock on said diary.

There is most definitely a doodle of a heart and two sets of initials somewhere within the pages.

You are a female.

Live with it.

I think it was in middle school sometime. 7th or 8th grade? But anyway, I was thinking at the time while we were making out that it could have been much better. I was also wondering whether I was doing a good job or not.

Edit: Oh, I had the first kiss with the girl I'm dating yesterday. We went off during break to the park and we're kissing on a bench there. I wasn't really into it. She kinda sucks at kissing honestly. It ruined the mood though when some college students came by and were like 'Look. They're soulmates.' saying jokingly. So I pulled away, right when she started to get deep into it. It was funny though.

Originally Posted by Grod

I think it was in middle school sometime. 7th or 8th grade? But anyway, I was thinking at the time while we were making out that it could have been much better. I was also wondering whether I was doing a good job or not.

Ditto, except in the 6th grade. I had expected much more, and not that it was bad or anything. Just wasn't that big of a deal.

If some of you guys are too shy or nervous when you're around a girl, just go to a party, get a little trashed and let the conversation roll from there. If not. . . Well, go get your first kiss before you're like 25 having never kissed a girl.

If your getting nervous about kissing a girl, just wait till the time comes to have sex. You'll never make it unless you just loosen and go for it.

Originally Posted by Siиdяed

You are writing a diary, in which your thoughts and emotions are being kept and treasured for posterity.

There may very well be a small, novelty padlock on said diary.

There is most definitely a doodle of a heart and two sets of initials somewhere within the pages.

You are a female.

Live with it.

Lol, I actually enjoy reflecting on my day everyday, if I don't do this, then I feel uneasy. However it usually involves a walk and me just talking thinking to myself about how the day went, it goes by much faster then writing, therefore I can cover much more.

i am asexual!
i dont like kissing guys with big lips. i dont know why. i find them attractive but i dont like to kiss them. girls are better =p

Originally Posted by Siиdяed

You are writing a diary, in which your thoughts and emotions are being kept and treasured for posterity.

There may very well be a small, novelty padlock on said diary.

There is most definitely a doodle of a heart and two sets of initials somewhere within the pages.

You are a female.

Live with it.

FYI, its on my computer dumbass and maybe you should stop being a faggot. It might actually help you get somewhere in life, rather than sitting around, and using the stereotypical view that only females are allowed to reflect upon themselves. So crawl out of your mums basement and go get a life.