Thread: tell me about first kisses...good or bad

Originally Posted by dweezil

it doesn't have to be the first kiss of your life...just the first kiss with someone new.

My first kiss ever was SUCH a big letdown.. it wasn't anything like I thought it would be.

I was so relieved to learn that kissing can be wonderful with someone who knows how to do it right!

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I've never kissed a girl...

I've never been kissed either, but around like 1st or 2nd grade this one really clingy girl that always hung around me back in those days tried to run after me and I think she kissed me somewhere near the back of my head. I wouldn't count that as a first kiss, because obviously it isn't proper, it was against my will, and I did not kiss back.

Originally Posted by Clairity

I was so relieved to learn that kissing can be wonderful with someone who knows how to do it right!
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How hard can it be to kiss someone?

Originally Posted by slayer

I've never kissed a girl...

I have It was actually much better than any guy I've ever kissed.

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Originally Posted by LucidDreamGod

How hard can it be to kiss someone?

Some people don't quite get it, or get a little too "nibbly" when they move on to non-oral areas. Really the nibbling is the only real issue I've had. But then again, I just love kissing so it's hard to let me down, and I'll just go at it and enjoy myself even if the other person isn't scoring high marks.

That's sort of my whole perspective: just enjoy yourself and don't expect any star performace out of the other person. I hate feeling like I'm being judged, personally, and think you should be able to enjoy the act anyway. Relax and have fun.

Anyway, first kisses are good times.

Originally Posted by Clairity

My first kiss ever was SUCH a big letdown.. it wasn't anything like I thought it would be.

I was so relieved to learn that kissing can be wonderful with someone who knows how to do it right!

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Agreed on both counts!

Originally Posted by LucidDreamGod

I've never been kissed either, but around like 1st or 2nd grade this one really clingy girl that always hung around me back in those days tried to run after me and I think she kissed me somewhere near the back of my head. I wouldn't count that as a first kiss, because obviously it isn't proper, it was against my will, and I did not kiss back.



How hard can it be to kiss someone?

LOL!! That sounds like something I used to do, actually, at around that age. That wasn't me who kissed you, was it?

Oh and trust me, it can be hard to kiss properly. You'll find this out for yourself soon enough.

Wow... coincidence...

Well, actually not. I could see it coming from miles (or should I say 'days'?) away.

Anyways... Just had my first (three) kisses last night. 't Was pretty amazing at the time, with all the adrenalin and stuff, and to be honest: it still is now, but now I look back, I'm pretty sure I could've done better.

But, man, it was pretty freaky, I must say. I don't know what happened, but after we kissed, I started getting all these weird convulsions. I started trembling all over. And I mean ALL over. I can't say I found that pretty straightforward, so I'm pretty flabberghasted by the whole thing. I think it was just the nerves (though I didn't feel any at the time), but I still found it pretty worrisome. Did this ever happen to someone else?

First kiss ever was with my best male friend who ended up being a 5 year ( thru middle and high school) on off bf and ended up being my first everything. The first kiss was actually in the alley at the back of his house, we were 13 and had pinched a couple of ciggarettes from his dads coat pocket, had snuck out there to smoke them, and were laughing manically about one of our other friends misfortune the week before, then out of nowhere he just leaned in, i went with it and although it wasnt the best technical kiss ive ever had i will always remember it fondly. we gave up trying to have a relationship when we hit college at about 16 yrs old and became awesome mates with extras, Unfourtunatley i still had a massive crush on him and it ended up gettin me in trouble with my next bf and it subsequently didnt work out. So when i eventually stopped feeling that way and met the guy i married, i cut all planned contact with him permanantly, i realise its kinda unneccesary cause im very happy now, and very much in love with my husband , but im very much a " better safe than sorry" kinda girl. Ive seen him out and about and we chat and buy each other a drink etc, but we both know its for the best we leave it at that lol.

OMG just realised how much i wrote about it, im sure noone wants my life story lol. Nostalgias kicked in

I remember my first kiss - it was with someone who was pretty bad - I mean it was my first kiss and I knew that it was bad lol.

But I agree, doesn't matter who it is with first kisses are usually pretty good! Love it

mine was with a friend i had a crush on, but he was such an awful kisser. he shoved his tounge in my mouth and churned it round like it was in a washing machine. it was so gross.

but i had a first kiss with someone the other day and it was amazing! kissing rules.

oh, and has anyone ever vomited after kissing someone for the first time? i did this with my second boyfriend. i was so nervous and excited i puked. luckily it didn't put him off.

Originally Posted by dweezil

oh, and has anyone ever vomited after kissing someone for the first time? i did this with my second boyfriend. i was so nervous and excited i puked. luckily it didn't put him off.

.. wow, he must have really liked you!

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My first kiss was pretty sweet, I was going out with this older girl back in 10th grade, she was in 11th...just a year no biggie...anyways so we were dating for a few weeks and i didn't let her kiss me because im such a non-easy person lol, told ya I was a girl...anyway

We were taking a walk down the street at night, holding hands and just talking about things and she was like "when are you gonna ever let me kiss you!"

Then it sorta just happened, she grabbed me and pulled me over to her and stuck her lips against mine and literally shoved her tounge into my mouth and oh boy was it amazing, I felt in a way that she was forcing herself onto me which made it that much more incredible.

A few days later, we were hanging out again after our first kiss and good god she was all over me, we must of made out for a good 2 hours straight or more without any breaks or stopping.

Gotta love those wild dominant girls, I'm such a submissive its a must! lol

Its funny how she made all the moves on me and I was like the girl of the relationship and she was the guy, hell ALL OF my relationships were like that haha



And Switch, you think girls kiss better then guys? maybe it was just a real crappy guy kisser lol

I've never had a bad kiss honestly cause all the girls ive kissed were very dominant and tough so they were aggressive kissers, biters...oh yea

But honestly I have yet to kiss a guy unfortunately that opportunity hasn't arrived yet

I'll get back to that when it happens, hehe

Mine was pretty special. I nearly passed out.

wow

my first kiss was awesome. we'd dated for awhile and definitely had established feelings for each other and all that good stuff. and we were sitting in my bean bag chair [still have it] just chillin watching some movie in my room. and then we looked at each other, and then we were eating each others heads. it was so random. that kinda stuff never works out if you plan it.

Originally Posted by guerilla

Then it sorta just happened, she grabbed me and pulled me over to her and stuck her lips against mine and literally shoved her tounge into my mouth and oh boy was it amazing, I felt in a way that she was forcing herself onto me which made it that much more incredible.

How do you find those types of girls? I usually end up liking shy girls just because I don't like them talking all the time, it would probably be good for me just because I don't talk much at all, plus I also like dominant girls, not like manly, and not like BDSM, but you know what I mean.

Originally Posted by Mes Tarrant

LOL!! That sounds like something I used to do, actually, at around that age. That wasn't me who kissed you, was it?

Oh and trust me, it can be hard to kiss properly. You'll find this out for yourself soon enough.

I'm pretty sure, it's too bad this girl wasn't my type of girl, it's not like I wasn't interested in girls at that age. I think my first crush was on my kindergarden teacher, not even sure if it was a crush, just thought she had nice legs .

lol lucid, I don't know where to 'find' them, I just happened to bump into them I guess....

Most shy girls and normal girls never go for a guy like me because they are always waiting for me to approach them and make the first move, which I don't do and they eventually move onto the next guy, even if I did make the approach they would end up breaking up with me because i am way to much like a woman to date a regular woman.

I'm too submissive and unwilling to just jump into bed, I always like to wait a while.. pretty much identical to most girls..thats why I always went with dominant girls who are pretty much guys almost, but they still are feminine to a certain extent (ie they wear makeup and stuff...) but the reason I always ended up with dominant girls is because they approach me and they are the ones who hit on me and they are the ones who made the moves...I didn't do anything really cause I don't feel right making moves myself

So yea, I can't really help you find dominant girls lol sorry..just stop dating shy girls

Originally Posted by dweezil

oh, and has anyone ever vomited after kissing someone for the first time? i did this with my second boyfriend. i was so nervous and excited i puked. luckily it didn't put him off.

no, but, i was at a party once where i got really wasted and ended up getting sick and puking, i thought i passed out but apparently i was blacked out for about 5 hours, when i came to i was making out with a girl and could barely breathe through my nose because it was all snotty from me puking earlier.

it was pretty gross, or to me it was anyways, and it was awkward since i don't remember how it started. it must of been fun for her though because she'd apparently been doing it for like an hour or so, she said it was the best time she's had in a long time a few days after that, god knows what else she did to me while i was blacked out!

i do remember though the first thing i said when i was no longer blacked out.. "i need to piss" lol, that put an end to it then i went and went to sleep.

So I'd been friends with this kid for a while, y'know? Like, the entire year. And finally, he leaned over and kissed me, right on the cheek (which soon filled with blush). We were in the middle of the classroom, standing on a stool in the carpeted area. The room was always huge to me, but that day it felt like a sea of teal, everyone else so far away, playing with tinker toys and play clothes. No words preceded the kiss. Nervous giggles followed. Did someone see this taboo act of cooties? No, no other kid took notice. Relief.

Then we started talking again. I found out some day later that we were going to enter 1st grade at different elementary schools, and would never see each other again...

Sixth grade was my first kiss. I liked this boy Aaron and he was with my best friend at the time (if I remember correctly). So, I began to go out with his best friend, Patrick, to make him jealous (lol). The same day I began to "go out" with Patrick he came up to me in gym and asked quite non-chalant "Can we FRENCH KISS after school today". I was suprised and disgusted seeing as I had no feelings for this boy and thought he was the ugliest most crooked teeth looking thing I could and would ever have seen. I said yes because Aaron was standing nearby, hoping he would hear, and then met Patrick in the hall after school. I tried to time it so Aaron would be passing by at the same time and I cant remeber if it worked but I do remeber lots of spit and disgusting breath. Afterwards I wanted to PUKE so I ran to the restroom and cried and gaged until someone walked in. I still don't know to this day how we managed not to get caught by the teachers when EVERYONE of my friends saw (except for Aaron). I broke Patricks heart the next day but eventually got Aaron behind my friends back. To this day I regret every move I made in sixth grade because I thought i was "IN LOVE" with Aaron Mcqueen. AHHHH Thank God that year is over.

I'm purty shy to an extent but once I get used to somebody and know that they care for me. I let my wild side out and then lol ... nobody can leave. hehehe

Originally Posted by Switch

I have It was actually much better than any guy I've ever kissed.

I have too ... actually many girls. And just as well done other things .... hmmmm it felt akward but satisfying. I have no clue if I will try it again but its likely.