Thread: tell me about first kisses...good or bad

I've never kissed a girl...

I've never been kissed either, but around like 1st or 2nd grade this one really clingy girl that always hung around me back in those days tried to run after me and I think she kissed me somewhere near the back of my head. I wouldn't count that as a first kiss, because obviously it isn't proper, it was against my will, and I did not kiss back.

Originally Posted by Clairity

I was so relieved to learn that kissing can be wonderful with someone who knows how to do it right!
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How hard can it be to kiss someone?

Originally Posted by LucidDreamGod

How hard can it be to kiss someone?

Some people don't quite get it, or get a little too "nibbly" when they move on to non-oral areas. Really the nibbling is the only real issue I've had. But then again, I just love kissing so it's hard to let me down, and I'll just go at it and enjoy myself even if the other person isn't scoring high marks.

That's sort of my whole perspective: just enjoy yourself and don't expect any star performace out of the other person. I hate feeling like I'm being judged, personally, and think you should be able to enjoy the act anyway. Relax and have fun.

Anyway, first kisses are good times.

Originally Posted by Clairity

My first kiss ever was SUCH a big letdown.. it wasn't anything like I thought it would be.

I was so relieved to learn that kissing can be wonderful with someone who knows how to do it right!

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Agreed on both counts!

Originally Posted by LucidDreamGod

I've never been kissed either, but around like 1st or 2nd grade this one really clingy girl that always hung around me back in those days tried to run after me and I think she kissed me somewhere near the back of my head. I wouldn't count that as a first kiss, because obviously it isn't proper, it was against my will, and I did not kiss back.



How hard can it be to kiss someone?

LOL!! That sounds like something I used to do, actually, at around that age. That wasn't me who kissed you, was it?

Oh and trust me, it can be hard to kiss properly. You'll find this out for yourself soon enough.

Wow... coincidence...

Well, actually not. I could see it coming from miles (or should I say 'days'?) away.

Anyways... Just had my first (three) kisses last night. 't Was pretty amazing at the time, with all the adrenalin and stuff, and to be honest: it still is now, but now I look back, I'm pretty sure I could've done better.

But, man, it was pretty freaky, I must say. I don't know what happened, but after we kissed, I started getting all these weird convulsions. I started trembling all over. And I mean ALL over. I can't say I found that pretty straightforward, so I'm pretty flabberghasted by the whole thing. I think it was just the nerves (though I didn't feel any at the time), but I still found it pretty worrisome. Did this ever happen to someone else?

First kiss ever was with my best male friend who ended up being a 5 year ( thru middle and high school) on off bf and ended up being my first everything. The first kiss was actually in the alley at the back of his house, we were 13 and had pinched a couple of ciggarettes from his dads coat pocket, had snuck out there to smoke them, and were laughing manically about one of our other friends misfortune the week before, then out of nowhere he just leaned in, i went with it and although it wasnt the best technical kiss ive ever had i will always remember it fondly. we gave up trying to have a relationship when we hit college at about 16 yrs old and became awesome mates with extras, Unfourtunatley i still had a massive crush on him and it ended up gettin me in trouble with my next bf and it subsequently didnt work out. So when i eventually stopped feeling that way and met the guy i married, i cut all planned contact with him permanantly, i realise its kinda unneccesary cause im very happy now, and very much in love with my husband , but im very much a " better safe than sorry" kinda girl. Ive seen him out and about and we chat and buy each other a drink etc, but we both know its for the best we leave it at that lol.

OMG just realised how much i wrote about it, im sure noone wants my life story lol. Nostalgias kicked in

I remember my first kiss - it was with someone who was pretty bad - I mean it was my first kiss and I knew that it was bad lol.

But I agree, doesn't matter who it is with first kisses are usually pretty good! Love it

Originally Posted by CryoDragoon

But, man, it was pretty freaky, I must say. I don't know what happened, but after we kissed, I started getting all these weird convulsions. I started trembling all over. And I mean ALL over. I can't say I found that pretty straightforward, so I'm pretty flabberghasted by the whole thing. I think it was just the nerves (though I didn't feel any at the time), but I still found it pretty worrisome. Did this ever happen to someone else?

This is a classic post-adrenaline response.

As for me, no kisses yet : (

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Okay, first kiss on the lips right. It was terrible. I was 14 and had just started high school, the guy was like 16 or 17. He was very attractive physically, but every other way, not at all. We had sort of been dating, but not really. We argued a lot. So I didn't like him much. After some long school fund raiser thing, the gym was isolated. I remember sitting next to the entrance to the gym coz I was the "greeter person." I was in a chair messing around on my cell. He came out of nowhere and was apologizing for some crap. He just didn't get that I didn't want him romantically, and I thought it would have been mean to be so straightforward and say it. So we talked about some random stuff for a bit and I think he asked me to hug and/or kiss as a sort of "truce." Something like that. I think I just shrugged but I didn't really want to. He ended up doing it anyway, and it was....yeah. It wasn't even too proper, very small, not even fully on the lips. Like over half of them. (Because I believe I expressed my discomfort and pulled away a bit) Haha. I remember he looked very happy, no embarrassment at all. I was sort of disgusted. He asked when we could really "make out." I recall giving him a nasty look and looking on my cell. Then when we were both leaving he tried kissing again and I pulled away for real this time. The guy sort of stalked me after that, but I never talked to him after that. That is all.



Of course, later on you realize it's pretty good with people who you actually want to kiss.

Originally Posted by slayer

I've never kissed a girl...

I have It was actually much better than any guy I've ever kissed.

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Originally Posted by Switch

I have It was actually much better than any guy I've ever kissed.

I have too ... actually many girls. And just as well done other things .... hmmmm it felt akward but satisfying. I have no clue if I will try it again but its likely.

Originally Posted by Shaelyn

Sixth grade was my first kiss. I liked this boy Aaron and he was with my best friend at the time (if I remember correctly). So, I began to go out with his best friend, Patrick, to make him jealous (lol). The same day I began to "go out" with Patrick he came up to me in gym and asked quite non-chalant "Can we FRENCH KISS after school today". I was suprised and disgusted seeing as I had no feelings for this boy and thought he was the ugliest most crooked teeth looking thing I could and would ever have seen. I said yes becauseAaron was standing nearby, hoping he would hear, and then metPatrick in the hall after school.

Hahahaha. I was very scared when I started reading, because in sixth grade my best friend was called Aaron and I had a girlfriend but only for about a week. But my first kiss wasn't until 8th grade. Phew!

Then again it does sound like me. Especially the good looks

Originally Posted by guerilla

wow

I was exaggerating a bit. I felt light headed and my vision went all fuzzy for a minute. I might have been having a stroke, come to think of it.

Originally Posted by Pensive Patrick

Hahahaha. I was very scared when I started reading, because in sixth grade my best friend was called Aaron and I had a girlfriend but only for about a week. But my first kiss wasn't until 8th grade. Phew!

Then again it does sound like me. Especially the good looks.

Lol ... thats funny. But I am purty sure it wasen't you seeing as how my sixth grade year wasen't too long ago. I am purty young lol. What a coincedence ... but aaron and patrick aren't really uncommon names. Hmmmm ...

Still waiting...

My mates are always asking me why I haven't kissed anyone yet, but its mainly because I am just waiting for the right person. Then some people just say, just go and kiss one of those sluts over there that would kiss anyone. Fuck that.

Originally Posted by Everlong

Still waiting...

My mates are always asking me why I haven't kissed anyone yet, but its mainly because I am just waiting for the right person. Then some people just say, just go and kiss one of those sluts over there that would kiss anyone. Fuck that.

Indeed, fuck that. I'm in the same boat, exactly the same thoughts

this thread should be locked there is already a thread like this one

I actually technically have had a kiss, but it was when I was like 4. Oddly enough it was a straight-up kiss between me and this other young girl. I don't actually remember it at all, I only know about it from a picture my mom snatched.

I haven't had a single kiss since. I'm not really all that much of a shy guy as I was several years ago but for some reason, I still get that "Omg! It's her!" feeling whenever I'm around the girl I like. Not shy about anything else, just getting close to a girl who I'm interested in. What can I say? I'm a freak of nature.

Originally Posted by Black_Eagle

I still get that "Omg! It's her!" feeling whenever I'm around the girl I like. Not shy about anything else, just getting close to a girl who I'm interested in. What can I say? I'm a freak of nature.

My bet would be your not as much effected by it as me. I know the feeling though, when I want to go up to a girl I like, the girl I like now, it feels like the act that I would be about to commit is so alien in nature and my whole world will shake when I do it, and I just feel so threatened that I can never make the move, worst is that I really am so lazy,

All I can compare it to is Sleep Paralysis, you know where you feel you could at anytime take control of your body, but you cannot find your will to move the muscle to the slightest degree, this is what happens to my mind exactly.

Originally Posted by Black_Eagle

I still get that "Omg! It's her!" feeling whenever I'm around the girl I like.

I get that all the time. In fact, here's an extract from my journal on it. I replaced the names for privacy reasons.

Thursday 25th September, 2008

Anyway, the job induction began at 3:00. For the first two hours, we finished and gathered up paperwork, watched a few videos about the store, and answered a few questions. Then we were allowed to have a 15 minute break. During the break, me and my sister just took a walk around Elizabeth. Then, we spent another hour and a bit, watching more of the video and answering more questions. Then we were allowed to have a 45 minute break. There was nothing to do, so we just walked a couple of laps around the centre. At the same time, I thought, 'Wouldn't it be weird if I saw her here?' About a minute later, I walk around the corner, and guess who I see?

It was her! I nearly fainted when I saw her. As soon as I saw her face, I was struck with a huge feeling of happiness and surprise. It was so big that I was absolutely lost for words, and all I could give her was a nod of greeting. That same feeling struck me through the stomach, and I felt as if my heart had just skipped a beat. The feeling then passed to my legs and made them numb, and feel like jelly.
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Sure sucks...

I had my first kiss in 11th grade. She had already kissed one guy before me. It was good, but nothing like I had made it up be in my head. And don't get me wrong I really enjoy kissing, but my first one was nothing special. I'm inclined to believe it's because she wasn't much into kissing in general. It just wasn't her thing. I've kissed 3 other girls since then and they've all said I am a really good kisser.

Originally Posted by Everlong

I get that all the time. In fact, here's an extract from my journal on it. I replaced the names for privacy reasons.

Thursday 25th September, 2008

Anyway, the job induction began at 3:00. For the first two hours, we finished and gathered up paperwork, watched a few videos about the store, and answered a few questions. Then we were allowed to have a 15 minute break. During the break, me and my sister just took a walk around Elizabeth. Then, we spent another hour and a bit, watching more of the video and answering more questions. Then we were allowed to have a 45 minute break. There was nothing to do, so we just walked a couple of laps around the centre. At the same time, I thought, 'Wouldn't it be weird if I saw her here?' About a minute later, I walk around the corner, and guess who I see?

It was her! I nearly fainted when I saw her. As soon as I saw her face, I was struck with a huge feeling of happiness and surprise. It was so big that I was absolutely lost for words, and all I could give her was a nod of greeting. That same feeling struck me through the stomach, and I felt as if my heart had just skipped a beat. The feeling then passed to my legs and made them numb, and feel like jelly.
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Sure sucks...

Try talking to her.

Also cease writing a journal. You are not a female.

I've had kisses in dreams, and those are some of the most incredible experiences I've ever had.

Originally Posted by Marvo

I've had kisses in dreams, and those are some of the most incredible experiences I've ever had.

Yeah. The real thing is overrated.

It gets better as you do though.

Originally Posted by Grod

Yeah. The real thing is overrated.

It gets better as you do though.

I think first kisses are overrated, but if anything, I think kisses in general are underrated. Just my opinion though.