Thread: Ask me about Girls/Women

How do you express to a woman you're head over heels about just how you feel without being too aggressive, forceful, or demanding? I seem to have a balance issue going on.

Again O you missed the concept of SOI. (statement of intent).

Attach your fondness of her to a quality unique to her.

eg "not only are you sexy but you have a great sense of humor."

she accepts the SOI by either saying "wow thanks" or saying nothing. If she Baulks at it then it's over. This way your letting her know how you feel in a non threatening way. If she doesn't accept it. Don't force the issue and move on.

Originally Posted by ranma187

Attach your fondness of her to a quality unique to her.

But I think I do that already. After all, I genuinely DO find many qualities about her that I consider, not only unique and attractive but, worthy of praise. So I have zero problem in the sincere compliment aspect of it all.

And she "seems" to be very responsive. But I often feel that I'm too demanding of her time and attention. I don't even know if she'd tell me if I were too, umm, I don't even know if I can explain it. But it worries me because I don't want to ruin what little we have so far since it's all so positive.

I mean, she knows how I feel but I'm having my trouble in the pacing department. It's like I'm so worried about others stepping on my toes and getting in between me and "the prize" (that's probably not the best way to say it but, you know what I mean) that I try too hard to be "the one". But it's only because I see something so rare and special that I'm compelled to try my hardest.

Originally Posted by Penter

What do girls enjoy talking about?

Them selves. Ask them how her day was. Then branch from there. EG- I went swimming, 0o0o0 i love swimming! I swam in the olympics once. "OH REALLY LETS DO IT!"

Haha, complete dramatization of course =D.

Originally Posted by Oneironaught

How do you express to a woman you're head over heels about just how you feel without being too aggressive, forceful, or demanding? I seem to have a balance issue going on.

What ranma said ;D

Originally Posted by Penter

What do girls enjoy talking about?

Something like this, I think --> ÐØÇÂĄĘĢössipŁŃĮĮŦŒŒ
Well That is what I here. :p

Girls like talking about hot guys. Emm.. but I suppose that doesn't help.

Originally Posted by Mes Tarrant

Girls like talking about hot guys. Emm.. but I suppose that doesn't help.

If it helps guys like talking about hot girls too?